I recently went on a few dates with a guy that I meant on a dating app… At first he seemed really nice and like someone I could see myself getting more dire with.
After we went on our fourth date, he asked if he could make brunch for me at his apartment… I felt comfortable with this so I said yes.
It was a super sizzling and humid night, so I got ready in my air conditioned house and hoped that my hair would not get ruined on the vehicle ride over. I blasted my air conditioner in the car, and got to his apartment, then when I walked in, the first thing I noticed was it was easily sizzling and humid in his apartment. I wondered if maybe his air conditioner was not working, or maybe it was sizzling in the house because he was using the oven to cook. I started dripping with sweat and I did not want to be a complainer however I asked him if he could please turn the control component down a bit, then he told me that his air conditioner has not been working for weeks, but this seems like something you would tell your date before inviting them over for brunch. I asked him if he has called an Heating, Ventilation as well as A/C company and he said no that the heat really does not bother him. Well it was bothering me. I asked if he had tried all the tricks on his own like checking to see if the air conditioner filter needed to be changed. He looked completely confused when I said that. This man has never changed his air conditioner filter. He has had the house for over five years and has not once changed out his air conditioner filters! I was disgusted, hot, and shocked.