I recently went on a few dates with a girl that I meant on a dating app, but at first she seemed actually nice & like someone I could see myself getting more extreme with.
After my pal and I opted to go on our fourth date, she asked if she could make lunch for me at her apartment, i felt comfortable with this so I said yep. It was a super overheated & humid night, so I got ready in my air conditioned dwelling & hoped that my hair would not get ruined on the automobile ride over. I blasted my air conditioner in the car, & got to her apartment, when I walked in, the first thing I observed was it was unquestionably overheated & humid in her apartment. I wondered if maybe her air conditioner was not working, or maybe it was overheated in the dwelling because she was using the oven to cook. I started perspiring & I did not want to be a complainer but I asked him if she could please turn the thermostat down a bit, she told me that her air conditioner has not been working for weeks, and this seems like something you would tell your date before inviting them over for lunch. I asked him if she has called an Heating & Air Conditioning supplier & she said no that the heat actually does not bother him. Well it was bothering me. I asked if she had tried all the tricks on her own like checking to see if the air conditioner filter needed to be changed. She looked completely confused when I said that. This girl has never changed her air conditioner filter. She has had the dwelling for over five years & has not once changed out her air conditioner filters! I was disgusted, hot, & shocked.